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It Is Done And It Is Time

The above artist Mymoo can be found at the following link. http://poowa.com/english-board/zboard.php?id=poowaisland&page=1&sn1=&divpage=1&sn=off&ss=on&sc=on&select_arrange=headnum&desc=asc&no=45 The art is from my 360 friends I will put links and names to them later. I just would like you to be with them and let them take you on journeys. I am sure the artist who created them feel the same. If you click on them, you will see a larger and more private expression. If you want to change the world or your family or any relationship, you have to be willing to show the way to change. You need to accept the responsibility for confronting yourself and your part in any problem or situation. Then you need to begin to change your responses inside and out to any difficult relationship or problem. When people see you change they will be more likely to follow your example and begin to change themselves. Your commitment to change and healing must be real , deep, ...

It Aint Easy. But It Is Worth It, inshAllah

The most difficult thing I have ever had to do is to be a step-father. I decided when I was a young man that I did not want a traditional life or children. I wanted the freedom to do whatever I desired free of the responsibilities of traditional marriage or fatherhood. And I was very happy not having any children or too many social responsibilities. I lived the life I wanted to live well into my early fifties. I went where I wanted to go and stayed as long as I wanted to stay. I got in and out of trouble and had many good and exciting adventures in this country and abroad. I regret nothing and loved it all, even the pain and suffering and shame and humiliation. It was my life. I made my choices and have accepted the consequences. There was a lot more good then bad and for that I am thankful to the Goddess. Things changed about six years ago when I met my wife, one of her names is "My". My has two sons by two different men. Diamond is fourteen and Asher is twelve. I have alway...